A megghiu parola è chidda ca nun si dici – The Best Word Is the One Not Said
In Sicily, we’re known for many things: loud conversations, strong opinions, and intense expressions of love, anger, and everything in between. But every now and then, Sicilian wisdom reminds us that sometimes… silence really is golden.
What Does It Mean?
The proverb “A megghiu parola è chidda ca nun si dici” translates to “The best word is the one not said.” It’s a gentle (or not-so-gentle) reminder that not every thought needs to become a spoken word. Knowing when to bite your tongue is, in fact, a virtue.
When Do Sicilians Use It?
This saying is often used:
- To defuse conflict (“Megghiu stari muti!”)
- After someone regrets saying too much
- As advice to younger generations who tend to overshare
- And of course, during family arguments—just before someone storms off to cook something dramatic
Wisdom in a Word
Silence can be a strategy, a sign of wisdom, or a way to keep the peace. In a culture famous for passionate expression, this proverb is a reminder that discretion isn’t weakness—it’s power.
Think of it as the Sicilian version of “Think before you speak.” But with more side-eye and espresso.
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We want to hear your stories—when did you hold your tongue and it paid off? Or not? Share your moment of silent wisdom in the comments or tag us @sicilianfoodculture with your favorite Sicilian saying!
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